LIFE IS A DANCE


Your life within God's arms,
Your dance within God's arms,
Is already Perfect!
- Hafiz

Life is like dancing.
If we have a big floor, many people will dance.
Some will get angry when the rhythm changes.
But life is changing all the time.
- don Miguel Ruiz

When you get the choice to sit it out or dance,
I hope you dance.
- Lee Ann Womack

Today is your day to dance lightly with life,
sing wild songs of adventure,
invite rainbows and butterflies out to play,
soar your spirit, and unfurl your joy.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Teaching Tolerence................


When my story telling session started this evening, I was a little worried because here I was in a mosque, talking about Passover and the story of Moses.
Muslims believe that Moses was a prophet of God and came with a message for the people. He was Mussa Nabi. The kids did not know that and to my amazement, neither did some of the parents.

I started off with some trepidation, expecting the parents to yell or walk out but the faces of the children lit up with curiosity and as the story proceeded, I got more and more bold and used the ‘H’ and ‘J’ words – Hebrew and Jews.
It is this cultural illiteracy that is the root of hate. By telling the story of Moses and then of Jesus (after all it is Easter), I educated the kids that both Jesus and Moses were our prophets – Issa and Mussa. Now they had something in common with their friends at school.

We even discussed the importance of eggs during Easter and Passover and made a connection to Navroz, our New Year, which was celebrated on March 21st, and during which we also give an importance to eggs. Eggs symbolize renewal and all three of these holidays – Navroz, Passover and Easter are holidays celebrating renewal and rebirth. Whether it was the birth of freedom and a new nation, or the resurrection of Christ or the renewal of spring, they are all connected. We are all connected.
I came out of the story telling session elated, having educated the kids on the similarities of cultures and maybe even reduced the inherited hate that exists.

We already recognize that early childhood education sets the stage for future development. Why then would we not educate the kids about other cultures so that they can grow, already being familiar and comfortable with other cultures, especially where similarities exist? Especially if these teachings will help encourage peace, love and brotherhood!

A Letter to Dalton James Patrick Mc Guinty Jr. and his fellow Liberals

This letter was sent to Dalton McGuinty two days ago. I am so sick of paying more for everything.............................


My name is Alnoor Rajan and I am a resident of Brampton, Ontario.

Five years ago, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and have just been granted my disability of $600.00 a month.

Before being diagnosed with MS, I was a small business owner offering corporate catering services for breakfasts, lunches, business meetings, seminars, etc as well as running two office cafeterias. Due to the illness, I could not work and lost a big part of my business and income.

This HST has put an even bigger strain on my finances. As it is, since my diagnosis I am surviving on a meagre income and now I am paying HST on almost everything. This is quite ridiculous.
Instead of helping the population you are too busy trying to raise funds for a deficit caused by your own inefficiencies and incompetence.
Instead of gouging the public, why not reduce your spending, such as the benefits that you and your employees make and your own expenses that tax payers are paying for? Why should I have to pay twice for your gross misjudgments and errors?
You have no problem digging up roads, only to fix them again in the name of 'creating jobs'.
You have no problem spending millions when you could as easily, identify the waste of tax payer funds by making your government more efficient.
You have no problems 'faking it' to the public in your ads that you are improving the economy and creating jobs. Lies!
One of the 'accomplishments' you brag about in your ads is the "HST refunds". This is a joke. Why take it in the first place when you are only going to refund it? Doesn't the administration of taking it and refunding it cost? Is this how you are creating jobs?

I used to be proud of living in the best country in the world, Now I am sad that I live in a country run by inefficient politicians like you, who can take the food off my table to fund their own inefficiencies and incompetence. I thought this only happened in places like the corrupt African countries. But it happens here too. The only difference is that here it is done in the name of God and Country and by politicians who are white and who wear expensive suits.
Do not tell me what you are doing for me when I can clearly see what you are not doing for me. Do not tell me how this is for my benefit when all I see is an eternal dark tunnel that you have helped build.

Let me tell what I cannot do because of the HST:
I cannot fill my car up with gas because I cannot afford the hike in the price of gas,
I cannot shop for groceries like I used to because of the price increase,
I cannot live like I used to (which was not ostentatious to begin with) because everything I consume and all the services that I use are now more expensive and not within my budget.
But, there is one thing I can do:
I can shop at the local Goodwill stores because they do not charge the cursed HST. It is unfortunate that they do not sell gas, groceries and basic necessities that I need to live.

On top of this, the increase in the cost of living, does not warrant an increase in my benefits or in the monies I receive. How unfair is that?
Could you live on $600.00 a month?
Maybe all incomes should increase in the same proportion as the increase in taxes.
Do you even recognize this phenomenon?

My medical expenses are already very high and now I have to live with your blunders and and increase in my expenses to reduce the quality of my already value less life.
I have chosen not to take the prescription drugs which are only symptomatic and still cause side effects, and half the time do not work. Instead, I have chosen an all natural route which seems to work miracles. The only problem is that your government does not cover natural remedies and treatments.
You will cover the poisons that kill and cause more illness but not cover the natural remedies that work. So, now my medical expenses are out of my pocket and since you can only allocate $600.00 per month to me, how do you expect me to live in a society of your creation?

There are so many issues that need your attention.
What are you doing about the poisoning and the toxicity of our food, water and air?
What are you doing about the greed of the gas companies?
What are you doing about the illnesses that have increased disproportionate to the increase in population?
What are you doing about the greed of the pharmaceutical industries who create illnesses and drugs with side effects, so that they can make more money?
Where are all the funds raised for medical research going? Millions, billions and trillions are raised in the name of research and in the name of 'finding a cure' to illness. What has your government done to ensure that these funds go to those who need them and not to the pharmaceutical industry who already thrives on the sick and ailing society.
Why would you be proactive in resolving these issues when you can create new problems and expenses for your constituents, by increasing taxes?

I guess you are expecting a pat on your back for your numbered accomplishments.

Unfortunately, I am not in a position to be generous with my pats, especially not to politicians who spit on and stab their constituents in the back on the pretext of helping them. I am not so generous with my pats, especially not to politicians who make their constituents lives difficult, only to fund their own pockets, their own inefficiency and their own incompetence. I am not generous with politicialns who feed the greed of the gas companies the greed of the pharmaceutical industry to take advantage of the citizens so that your government can earn more in taxes.

There is one thing you can count on and that is that my vote will never come to you - definitely not in the next election, which I hope is soon because I can hardly wait for you and your party to leave.

Sincerely,
Alnoor Rajan

New Year’s Resolutions – Their true effectiveness and validity.



I have constantly pondered over this phenomenon called ‘the New Year’s Resolution:

It is not unusual to see drastic increases in the attendance at prayer houses of all faiths, or in the gyms and fitness programs or in the desire to quit smoking, reduce alcohol intake, be more committed to one’s family and all the positive traits one can think of, in the beginning of a brand new year.
However, it is also not unusual to see the number of people committed to their New Year’s Resolution(s) dwindle by Valentine’s Day and I would have to wonder if this is a reflection of our combined sense of commitment (as the human race) to anything at all.
The fast paced, ever changing environment we live in has successfully enabled us to make and break our promises and to conveniently ignore what really needs making better.

Every year, I hear, “A New Year, a New You……” but it is not a new me. It is the same old me with changing convictions and changing priorities, living in an ever-changing and evolving environmental and societal tide.
Why does a New Year mean that that I have to change? Why is the New Year the only time that warrants this change?
I truly believe that the time for change is at any time I feel and that may vary depending on my need, my level of commitment, self worth, responsibility and most of all circumstance. If I choose to make a resolution in the middle of the year, then, so be it. If I choose to give up on that resolution for whatever reason, then so be it. What right does anyone have to judge me as a result? What right do I have to judge another?

The media and self-help gurus devote reams of information to how to make and keep resolutions and ultimately it is each individual’s personal decision, strength and level of commitment, or the lack thereof, that keeps him or her on the desired path of change.

How these resolutions can be achieved is not for me or anyone else to say, especially in a world that has so many distractions, so many ways in which, wavering is possible and in a world that is also so forgetful as new things, new icons, new idols and commitments emerge on a second to second basis.

The level of commitment may then seem to be in direct proportion to the levels of competence and respect for humanity that exist today. When we really mean what we say and say what we mean, we may not need to re-enforce the need for commitment to anything at all.

Change is of course inevitable but when we try to change by someone else’s standards, be like someone else, and/or succumb to other people’s scrutiny, we try and change who and what we truly are, through unattainable, un-committable resolutions. The outcome is a residue of moral and emotional scars that need to be filled by forgoing ethical and humanitarian values and by making more resolutions which cannot be upheld. We end up falling into the viscous cycle of making promises that we will only inevitably, break
On the other hand, when we decide that change is incumbent, the resulting levels of commitment can be entirely different. In this case, resolutions may well be important because this means that we are trying to improve. When we recognize why we have resolutions and can determine whether this is being done for the benefit of others, because we are simply trying to fit in and conform by succumbing to societal dynamics, or whether the change is because we truly want to take resolute steps towards the betterment of our own futures, the level of commitment will be different, as will the outcome.

Our constant dissatisfaction and discontentment at the way we are may be why resolutions even exist. The superficial, vain and shallow existence we lead with no commitment to the real health issues, environmental issues, the complete lack of basic humanity and the condoning of superficial commitments from politicians and people in power, may increase our desire to want to improve our imperfect existence.
Only when we truly realize the totality of all these ethical improprieties which exist in our environment, can we do away with having temporary annual resolutions that distract us from the true realities of life.
When we realize the true causes of obesity, when the pharmaceutical industry stops poisoning the populations for profits , when governments realize that the poisons in our food, air and water are the causes of major illness and psychiatric problems, when we stop believing in fairy tales we hear about food, medicine, potential cures and the proverbial pot of gold at the end of the rainbow; in other words, when we come face to face with the reality that we call life and the real causes of illness, obesity, addiction and escapism, we may be able to do away with the need for annual resolutions that keep us temporarily and momentarily pacified.

I honestly think the New Year’s resolution is an under-committed and over-rated phenomenon that is only observed because someone somewhere says so and the real resolutions are the ones we ignore the most.
But I can do nothing about it because we are brainwashed into believing that we need to have New Year’s Resolutions.
It would be like I was single handedly trying to end the cold war; except that this involves the recognition of the lack of moral and ethical values along with a complete ignorance of the real issues like illness, greed, racism, prejudice, poverty and war that need to be dealt with from a social, economic, political, global and most of all, humanitarian point of view.

When we have the real ‘kahunas’ to recognize and call a spade a spade and when we can choose not to ignore what we do not want to know of, maybe we will see the demise of the need for annual pacifiers we call resolutions.

Where oh where is my Erin Brockowich.........?


The other night I was listening to Talk 1010 radio while doing my nightly exercise.

The host’s monologue was something about women in politics and even though I was concentrating on the count of my exercises, I got that he was talking about the role, women play in politics, questioning why there were more men than women in politics.

What got my attention is his use of the work "toxic" several times during his monologue. Mind you, I only heard this for about ten minutes but in those ten minutes he used the word "toxic" many times to describe the political environment.

I wish these same radio announcers would acknowledge that the whole world has become toxic; not just using the word as a metaphor but in the true sense of the word.
I guess more importance is placed in using the term 'toxic' so that the listener could understand what he was referring to.

What about the toxicity of our world and its effects on illness, on the ozone layer and on the environment?

What about the toxicity of our values and the effects on the youth who are to be the leaders of the future?


It is a little ironic how the term ‘toxic’ in its truest sense, is almost never used except to create a dirty rotten picture in the mind,

I have news for you. The term ‘toxic’ is as true as water is wet. That very water, in most cases is contaminated with harmful toxins in the name of ‘protecting’ our health - Why is there more chlorine in the tap water than in my pool water?

What is really toxic is everything in our world from our food, our water, our air, clothing, cosmetics, cleaners, our entire lives including our morals and values -where a good deed is buying the latest trend, or the most expensive look and where kindness and basic love for mankind is as guised as the chemicals dissolved in our water and the invisible poisons that are sprayed on our foods or used a preservatives to increase shelf life, or when advertising encourages lying so that a laundry detergent can be shown to remove the stains on a daughter's blouse that a mother caused when she secretly wore it, or when a toothpaste can miraculously remove stains that causes a model to lie and deceive.

This is when we know that the environment we live in is toxic in it's complete sense, and it is this very toxicity that needs to be addressed, in its entirety of what it has done to corrupt our world, our minds, bodies and spirits.

Where is my Erin Brockovich to expose and address this contamination?

Thanksgiving? What are we doing about it?


It is Thanksgiving weekend and I am at home watching some old movies. I recently purchased over a hundred video tapes (yes, they still make them) at the local used goods store for about 0.49 cents each.

One of the movies I watched was Apollo 13 and it really touched my heart.
There is a clip of when man first walked on the moon and as Neil Armstrong sets foot on the moon, we hear the TV anchor echoing the words of the President. “One step for man and a huge leap for mankind.”
That one little statement made a strong impact on me. I had heard it before but it had never really affected me. Its true meaning eluded me completely.

Here we are in the final months of 2010. We have advanced technologically so much that I can barely keep up. We have made a lot of progress in the medical field and a lot of mistakes too by becoming slaves to the pharmaceutical industry and their profit motives. We have become more materialistic, more ignorant, more aloof and the more connected we get, the farther away we seem to move from the connections and relationships generations before us enjoyed.

Every year we celebrate Thanksgiving and have the traditional turkey feast while being thankful for friends, family and little mercies.

I feel we have lost sight of the big picture and the ‘huge leap’ that was talked about when man first walked on the moon.

We have disconnected from each other. The divorce rate is the highest I has ever been and hate, discontent and war are just ‘normal’ anomalies in our lives and we really have lost sight of who we are and where we are going.

It is important that we reconnect not just with our loved ones, but with the little semblance of humanity we have left to realize that the war, the hatred, the unrest, the materialism (that only puts huge profits in the pockets of the corporations) and the constant need to outdo, outwear and outshine others leads us nowhere. It just takes us to a lonely place that's filled with darkness and despair.

We need to reconnect with the simplicity of life, of love and of friendship that family friends and neighbors alike, bring into our lives. We need to reconnect and rekindle that flame of contentment and satisfaction that has almost burned out and we need to go deep within ourselves to seek and grasp the love for each other and humanity so that we may enjoy a future that is not one filled with war, hatred and strife but one abundant with light, love and harmony.

My letter to the 'alleged' terrorists.......................

My dear brothers (although I think you have lost the right to be called my brothers). Therefore I will re-address you.

Dear Enemies of Islam and Enemies of the World:

I am writing this letter to you with great disappointment and despondency. In Islam, despondency is considered a sin but I am despondent due to your actions and the nature in which you have behaved toward the world and how you have behaved toward our country. I say our country because Canada is our country. Mine and yours and for all those who live here.
Whatever you may say about your “mother country” and “back home” and “where the heart is” and all those idioms and adages, the fact is that you are now living here, IN CANADA, and by far, this is considered your home.
For sure that is the truth for me. This country, Canada, is my home and you have been accused with the intentions of violating and harming my country and my home.

I speak in general for most minority immigrants. We came to this country with a hope and vision for the future - A vision of a better future, a secure future and a better life. Most of us have had to work hard, doing jobs (jobs that in our countries of origin, servants would do). But we persevered. We persevered because hard work never hurt any one and time and time again we have been shown that with hard work, tenacity and perseverance, one can accomplish anything.
Some of us have had to lie to our families that we were doing really well and that we were living full lives while we were actually struggling and living like paupers, in the beginning.
For others, the struggle still continues. We struggle to survive, the struggle to do things we have never done before, the struggle to integrate without disintegrating, the struggle with children to maintain culture and traditions and to protect them from the negative influences of social vices and most of all the struggle to live without getting caught up in the constant materialism and “living up to the Jones’.”
Thanks to you and your evil intentions, this struggle has just become more difficult.

Canada is a land of immigrants. All Canadians are from immigrant backgrounds.. Everybody has lived through the struggle of survival. The latter generations reaped the benefits of the struggles of the former generations.
While Muslims, Indians, Africans, Europeans, Asians and people of other ethnic backgrounds and religions have had to work harder, be smarter, more efficient and have had to prove themselves over and over again, most survived and new immigrants of similar backgrounds aspired to be like them. New immigrants learned from the mistakes of the older immigrants and the older immigrants provided the support system that the new immigrants needed.

The trust in the Muslim communities was shattered with 9/11 and other acts of terrorism around the world. The media and the entertainment world have not helped by portraying Middle Eastern people as terrorists. Not all Middle Eastern people are Muslims and not all Muslims are terrorists.
We survived by informing people, educating people and most of all by example that showed that Islam was a religion of love and peace and, just as not all sparkling wines are Champagnes, not all Muslims are terrorists, not all African American people are drug pushers, not all Italians are mafia and not all Russians are part of the Russian mob.

You have successfully ruined all efforts that previous and present generations have put into the acceptance of the Muslim communities. Not only have you made us to be wrong but all the trust that the Muslim communities have worked so hard to establish, is like water down the toilet. The constant struggle for equality that we have demanded, fought for and achieved and the fact that we could walk side by side with the “White Canadians” with our heads held high with pride and bask in the glory of the small achievements, has all been ruined by your nasty, intentions of terrorism in this country - the country that opened its arms and embraced your communities, your families and yourselves.

We, the minority immigrants, are the envy of those who do not qualify to come and live here. You, who have that right, have abused it and ruined it for everyone else because your actions have led the whole minority culture to be re-judged and misjudged and of course your actions will now cause the rest of the genuine brothers and sisters who may qualify to come to Canada, to be examined with extra scrutiny.

The most upsetting fact is that while honest people go through gruesome scrutiny and are treated like criminals because of the likes of you and your actions, it is people like you that enter the country posing as honest citizens, with nothing but evil intentions that your religion forbids.

So, it is thanks to you and your kind that disunity exists within the Islamic world. You and only you, guided by some disgruntled and delusional leaders are responsible for anti-Islamic and inhuman behaviour toward the rest of the world.

To be inhuman is to be un-Islamic and you have by far surpassed that.
Your leaders say that you are innocent until proven guilty. I say you are guilty by your intent. In the eyes of the minority population of Canada, you are guilty of shattering our past efforts and our future, of shattering our dream, of destroying our lives.
By that very action, you are guilty.

I wonder if the rest of Canada will really believe that the seventeen of you, (two of whom are already in jail) were working on a gardening project with your three tons of explosive material. I wonder if anyone will believe your fairy tales about how sweet and innocent you are while you pervert God’s words to justify violence.

If you are so intent on killing and destroying, I suggest that you start with your own homes and your families. Destroy your homes and mutilate your families so that you can understand what it is like to have that happen. Destroy your families so that they can be spared the embarrassment and shame of having you as children who do the opposite of what Islam and all other Religions preach.

Fear not Jihadists,(you should look up the true meaning of Jihad) the gates of hell are opened wide and are awaiting your arrival while the rest of us work harder to correct the damage you have caused.

Your lawyers are vying for the public’s sympathy and trying to sway us off-track by making comments about ill treatment and abuse. Even if they were true, why didn’t you think of all the ill treatment and abuse that you were going to impose upon the people and citizens of Canada, some of them even your people?
In the Holy Koran, the Geeta and the Bible in some form or the other, it is said that all actions will reap reactions. Well, you sowed the seeds of injustice, and now it is only fair that you reap the fruit.

I would like to re-affirm my vows to re-pledge my family and myself to love and protect Canada and all Canadians; and if it means disengaging from the likes of you that are bent on doing the opposite, then so be it. I am sure I am not alone.

Sincerely,
A heavy-hearted, grief-stricken and highly disappointed Muslim (I neither have the heart nor the intention of calling myself your brother).

P.S. I am a jihadi too but unlike you, I dedicate my life to preserving life and struggle to increase love, acceptance and tolerance.
The true meaning of Jihad is struggle. What you were going to do is no struggle. It is in fact against the very principles of Islam.